Friday, April 24, 2009

Relationships: One More Chance

Perhaps many of us have experienced being asked for “forgiveness or another chance” and some of us has actually been forgiven and given another chance.

Did it occur to you if you deserve to be forgiven and be given another chance? After hurting the person you love, what are your reasons for asking forgiveness? And if you’ve been forgiven, would you commit the same thing again thinking that forgiveness does not come with a price and is given freely?

In a relationship, it is NOT unheard of that either one of us commits a mistake. Whether it is intentionally done to hurt the other party or we have simply erred, mistakes and errors are common denominators in relationships.

But considering the fact all of us are humans and they say that human as we are, we are bound to commit errors. Would you take this notion as a common ground to always commit mistakes?

Rules are bent, hearts are broken, trusts are shattered; these are common scenario that happens whenever a relationship crumbles due to erring partners.

Whether we are immune to pain, turned a blind eye or has sought God for divine intervention; everything boils down to us.

Should we forgive and give another chance? Or forgive and move forward?

Either way, it would mean moving on and healing ourselves. So again, it’s your choice.

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